I have a love-hate relationship with  '"Change". If things stay stagnant for too long, I get frustrated and when things change all at once I find myself desperately seeking comfort. But the fact is only change can make your life more stable.The earth continuously rotates round it's orbit changing everything around us; so if we change with the changing time, we are actually constant with respect to the time and those who oppose change and deny it's acceptance are certain to lag.

Change is a harbinger of possibilities, it is our own limited perception that resist us to think beyond and extricate new territories. We must learn to view change as a natural phenomenon, to anticipate it and to plan for it because only when patterns are broken new world emerge. 

Change is growth. It just make us a better person each day but only when we don't fear change and take it as an opportunity with a positive stance. It makes you flexible, helps you to be fluid and go with the flow. Be it your career or a relationship you're into , change is essential everywhere for a better life as well as one's physical, mental and emotional well being. Change is nature's call for survival. Those who cannot abide change are stuckers, who jail their thoughts behind the walls of their unreasonable and low strength believes.The energy you spend resisting change changes you into a curmudgeon .

Somethings in life never changes but for the most part life changes everyday for me. Life is evolving each day and I've learned to embrace and honor it, as now I know change is good!!!   ;)

Expecting too much of a single soul is indeed a burden, she crushes , she constraints, she tries her
best to overcome all plausible frailties she had ever carried through out her life. She learns to ignore, small and big, stones of all size being thrown at her but rare is she understood.
The weaker sex called so is perhaps the strongest and most adaptable creature surviving on this earth. No women passes her life without being examined for her mettle, her endurance and patience .
I wonder why men remark "it's hard to understand women" .
Rather she is just what the people around her want her to be. You want her to be strong enough to take decisions but expect her to submissive enough to compromise.You want her to be educated enough to  boast about but seldom let her flaunt her talent in public. You want her to be social but never appreciate her maintaining her own circle. Is she complicated or you complicate her, is she an enigma or you make her life a mystery. Living in the favorable and unfavorable situation is a part of living, but smiling in all those situation is the art of living.    

                                   

 A recent article read the more intelligent you are the more critically you analyze things. Well, that means you tax your brain more ridiculously, as you naturally gravitate to thoughts much deeper. You trap your poor self amidst your own vague and piddling notions, which takes you no where nor it does any good to you.
Being smart is exhausting. Cheers to the profoundness that I've lately discovered in being "dumb". Preferably playing a smart dumb that is incisive and simple is a much needed favor to oneself. It's beautiful to let yourself free, free of  mean instincts, a sensitive soul, a sarcastic tongue, and a critical mind.

You make me Glow!!!

As indispensable as the air that touches every bit of my soul, and as guiltless as the water that gushes through my veins, I got you under my skin. I knew love will come find me some day, but never did I know it will be you who is headed my way. You were mine even before I realized your existence. We can’t foresee future else I wouldn’t have wasted fraction of second of my life being without you. Nevertheless I love how destiny brought us together.

A blessing; A prayer; A silent wish, “You” were.

My better half has been defined, now that I have found you. We don’t think alike, we don’t work alike, we don’t love alike, yet we share so much in common. We connect well on emotions, feelings, thoughts!! What else could I’ve ever asked for?!! That is what makes our wedlock even more than just beautiful. No thousand words or deeds will ever convey feelings like you do with your eyes and intimate gestures. You keep me falling for you again and again. You know how to keep promises that you’ve never made. Being beside you feels just right. You hear my unspoken words, you understand my concealed feelings, you make me happy, you make me glow!!

Indeed you are everything I could have ever asked for, you are the reality much like a dream. You knocked into my world with a rarest transition of an acquaintance turning into a friend to an irresistible beau, to my life, my much better half.

You complete me in so many and all possible ways, loving you all of my life will also just not be enough!!

Don't try to mold Reality to suit yourself. Mold yourself to suit Reality. Only the foolish try to resist Reality. 
The wise adapt.

Strive for the hereafter.

''There’s an amazing thing about broken hearts. When you don’t get what you want, you discover a need. When you discover a need, you begin to ask. When a request is unfulfilled, you keep asking. Sometimes He doesn’t give you what you ask for when He wants to give you something more. Sometimes He doesn’t give you right away because He knows there’s something better. Or so you can keep asking. Because it is in the process of begging, the process of crying to Allah, that you are elevated and brought nearer. It is in the process of asking that you are brought to the foot of His throne. It is your need and helplessness that drove you to His throne. He deprives to give...''

Only If You Believe

 Its enigmatic how the presence of right person in your life makes everything beyond beautiful ;And its surely a rare kind of thing that happens only to those who believe and believe and believe UNTIL death.